The Most Difficult Question.
#20: Talk Therapy
Thursday, 11 September 2008

Well, therapy! Therapy is weird. It increasingly seems to be the art of revealing what should be obvious (or what’s painfully obvious in retrospect), and learning about your life by talking to a total stranger is a little unsettling.

I wonder how many therapists write fiction. I wonder if they’re especially good at using their knowledge and experiences to write convincing characters. I also wonder if a therapist who writes fiction has a hard time drawing on personal experiences and acquaintances because so many of them must be confidential, “behind closed doors”. It seems like becoming a therapist involves renouncing a good chunk of one’s free speech.

But then, now that I think about it, a lot of jobs are like this in some way. Non-disclosure agreements are quite common, and there’s a whole hell of a lot you can’t say if you’re in politics. Actually, in the USA, elected officials are probably the people furthest removed from the First Amendment: not only to they have to calculate their every statement, but they have to subscribe to a particular religion. Pffft.

6 Comments...

  1. Renee

    Seems like you got a good therapist. I might be attempting to start therapy again, I’ll have to see if I have to put up with another of the fake cheery sort (or totally unrealistic type). Anyhoo. You probably have a good therapist and I’m happy for you. :)

  2. Lyndsey

    You gave yourself Tintin eyebrows and eyes in this. How pleasant.

  3. Ian

    Renee: I hope so! I’ve only seen her a couple of times but she seems OK so far? Thanks!

    Lyndsey: It’s hard to do much else at this scale.

  4. Nate

    On an unrelated note, Google Calendar tells me that today is “Patriot Day.” I think you can see the problems I have with this.

    It’s not a mistake either: it’s on Wikipedia.
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patriot_Day

  5. Frank

    That’s why I moved to Canada.

    Also, is the clock on this site an hour off?

  6. Ian

    Alternately: happy Ethiopian new year!

    And…yes. Looks like WordPress doesn’t really get “daylight savings time”…

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